September 20, 2008
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"I believe time alone doesn't
heal. You have to want to get over your ex and constantly try to see
yourself happy without them. As long as you focus on the fear that you'll
never meet anyone else, the anger that they left, or the hope you'll
get them back, you'll stay pretty much stuck in the same place. Of course,
you need to take time to grieve the end of a relationship, but you also
need to keep looking and moving forward - not backwards. It’s important
to do new things, meet new people and create new memories. Gradually,
as you force yourself to interact with others, you will start to find
yourself enjoying at least parts of life again. If keeping yourself
busy was the only solution to getting over an ex, then none of us would
be here. It's a combination of doing these things, time and crucially
adopting the right attitude that works."
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